kemahiran bersosial

Bagaimana menangani orang yang susah

(Bukan keanakan tetapi attitude)

1. Kemahiran bersosial adalah perkara penting dan menjadi factor kejayaan seseorang

2. Ramai orang yang kaya harta, kaya ilmu, kaya amal, tetapi tidak kaya saudara kerana kurang nya social intelligent nya.

3. Pernah tak kita mendengar cerita bagaimana orang berkawan tetapi tiba tiba menjadi musuh, hilang saudara. Pergaulan mestilah dua hala dan masing masing menjaga hati yang lain, bukan sebelah pihak je asyik mengalah.

4. Dalam lawak jenaka ada yang berkecil hati dan terlalu sensitive tanpa sebab.

5. Sedang makan sate ( contohnya,tiada kaitan dengan sesiapa) masing masing meriah mempelawa antara satu sama lain, tiba tiba seorang berkata ‘ ialah saya pakai susuk, sebab tu tak makan sate’. Jawapan yang mengejutkan orang lain dan menjadikan suasana mesra menjadi tegang. Lepas tu dah malu nak makan dengan rakan lain.

6. Sedang berjenaka hal wanita tak pergi sembahyang jumaat, ada suara pelik menyampuk, “you tak dengar ke , dah 5 kali dia kata dia uzur”. Yang lain lawak , yang seorang ni serous, tak faham isu. (Perempuan memang tak sembahyang jumaat samada uzur atau tak, ini Cuma lawak ,atau ajak ayam je)

7. Ada seorang bertanya kawannya , you ada dapat sms saya? Jawapan yang di terima mengejutkan , macam tak tahu bersocial. Adalah lebih mudah untuk memberi jawapan ya atau tidak daripada jawapan yang menyakitkan hati bagi orang tahu bersocial dan menghormati rakannya.

8. Mengapa perkara ini terjadi

9. Adakah kerana sifat kebudak budakan atau memang attitude nya yang anti social.

10. Tidak ikhlas berkawan mungkin factor nya juga atau inginkan perhatian tapi salah cara. Mementingkan diri dan tak tahu menjaga hati orang lain atau mungkin di sebabkan hati dah kotor atau perasaan rendah diri menebal. Menutup kelemahan diri dengan cuba tunjuk besar kepala kerana boleh marah orang lain atau sakitkan hati orang.

11. Antara prinsip kaya saudara adalah

a. Saling kenal mengenal ( seek to be understand than to be understood)

b. Saling menolong

c. Berdamai

d. Tidak merendahkan orang lain terutama di depan orang ramai

e. Menjauhi prasangka

f. Memberi kebaikan

g. Memilih dalam mencari teman (jiran, group dan saudara tiada pilihan)

h. Saling menghormati

i. Amar makruf nahi mungkar

j. Berpegang pada agama

k. Mencintaai sesame saudara

l. Mentaati ketua

m. Menepati janji

n. Utamakan sahabat

o. Tidak membuat kerosakan/ perkataan yang menyakitkan hati

p. Hindari penipuan

q. Tidak menyakiti org lain

r. Bermesyuarat

s. Teladan yang baik (akhlak baik)

t. Memperbaiki hubungan

12. Kaya hati; berenang di samudra kedamaian

a. Selalu ikhlas

b. Sabar

c. Syukur

d. Pemaaf

e. Memelihara cinta

f. Tawaduk

g. Jujur

h. Bergembira

i. Tenang

j. Yakin

k. Tawakal

13. Bagaimana jika semua kebaikan telah di tunjukkan tetapi dia ni memang jenis degil, hati busuk dan merosakkan team work . Mungkin caranya.

a. Buat blanket party

b. Confront

c. Conflict resolution technique

d. Call third party

e. Tindakan disiplin

f. Tindakan terhadap orang yang hati keras seperti yahudi di tunjuk dalam quran (surah 2).

g. Ada cadangan lain ??????????

h. Kena cari cara terbaik agar benang tak putus , tepung tak bercerai. Pengajaran mesti di beri supaya masalah Negara selesai.

14. Mari kita bincang secara ikhlas dan transparent. APa pandangan anda

15. Untuk bincang lanjut layari http://al-jeed-ilmiah.com

16. http://kopaspasra.blogspot.com

17. http://rosli.kelabjutawan.com

BAGAIMANA BERUNDING DENGAN ORANG YANG KERAS HATI

Orang yang keras hatinya seperti Yahudi
1. Ada nabi pun dia tak ikut,sahabat yang gagah dan hebatpun dia tak takut, inikan pula kita. Adakah dia nak ikut pemimpin dan kuasa besar dunia sekarang
2. Nabi pun yang tinggi akhlaknya pun dia bunuh, inikan pula orang macam kita yang tak di lindungi Allah , banyak kelemahan, nafsu tak terpelihara.
3. Kalau Allah, malaikat pun menjadi musuhnya , apatah lagi kita ni (quran 2:97)
4. Adakah kita lebih hebat dari Nabi, Allah dan malaikatnya?
5. Apakah ciri orang yang keras hati
a. Seperti yahudi- banyak bertanya tentang arahan (contoh; sembeleh lembu)
b. Dah diberi bukti masih engkar
c. Hati keras lebih dari batu
d. Di beri kitab tapi tak ikut(2:100)
e. Berjanji tapi engkar (2:99)
f. Berdamai tp perang
g. Suka berkelahi, bunuh membunuh dan usir mengusir
h. Membelakangkan kitab dan mengikut ilmu sihir (2:101)
6. (2:106) Tidakkah engkau mengetahui bahawa sesungguhnya Allah Yang Menguasai segala alam langit dan bumi? Dan tiadalah bagi kamu selain Allah sesiapapun yang dapat melindungi dan yang dapat memberi pertolongan.
7. Perlu perbincangan. Bagaimana mengatasi orang yang keras hati, tak menerima kebenaran. Ketabahan di perlukan untuk menegak dan meneruskan kebenaran.
8. What do you say.

quran and quality of life

ILMIAH: bagaimana kajian ini di buat

Al-quran dan kualiti hidup

CHAPTER 1: INTRODUCTION
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Good oral health of soldiers would decrease the number of urgent dental interventions and absences from training and the battlefield and would improve the security of the whole formation. Poor dental health may have severe oral health impact and hence can affect the performance of personnel. It may impose on the dental delivery system in providing oral health care by increasing the work burden of the personnel on duty in the Armed Forces dental services and increase the military budget. In the Armed Forces, this can also lead to personnel being evacuated from the operational area due to unbearable dental pain (Zainal Abidin, 1986). This evacuation will not only affect the morale of his colleagues but also impose risks to the evacuating helper and possibly affects the outcome of the battle.
Gordon et al (1986) reported that for the Israeli army 20-40 year aged group, to complete all dental treatment, needs 10.5 hours per soldier and one hour for dental hygiene therapy. This involves restorative, endodontic, oral surgical, periodontal and prosthetic treatment. Richardson et al (1996) in his study on dental status of a cohort of Royal Air Force recruits in 1988 found that the recruits required twice as many restorations in their first year in the service to render them dentally fit as were required in any subsequent year to maintain fitness, this work needed 58 minutes of dental officers’ time in their first year and 43 minutes per year thereafter. Chisick et al (2000) found that the estimated treatment costs of USD 1.9 billion for active duty (n=1,699,662) and USD 203 million for recruit (n=202,144) U.S. military personnel. Periodontal disease accounts for the greatest proportion (47%) of active duty treatment cost and oral surgery account for the greatest proportion (32%) of recruit treatment costs. The cost for restoring U.S service members to optimal oral health is substantial.
Numerous studies have been undertaken to assess the oral health status and treatment needs among the Armed Forces personnel in Malaysia. In a study by Zainal Abidin (1988), a high level of oral diseases among 318 personnel in infantry battalion was reported. He found that 98% had experienced caries and 95.5% had periodontal diseases. Twenty–nine percent required extraction of at least one tooth.
Senan (1989) found that 22.6% out of 495 soldiers in Majidee camp suffered from some form of periodontal problem. Faki (1989) undertook a study in a military camp in Terendak, to look into the dental treatment needs of the 17th Royal Malay Regiment before they were sent to Somalia for a military mission. He found that only 34% personnel did not require any form of dental treatment. Of those requiring treatment, 66% needed filling, 48% needed extraction and 66% needed scaling. In a study by Zainal Abidin (1992), among 7188 military personnel, it was found that 33.5% required emergency treatment, 7 % required denture, and 50 % required routine treatment (scaling and filling). Only 10.2% did not need any treatment. Jasmin (1995) examined 188 personnel in air force base in Kuantan and found a high level of unmet treatment need. 95.7% had periodontal diseases of which 89.4% required scaling, although none of them required root planning and gum surgery.
A study to compare the prevalence of dental caries, periodontal disease and the need for denture between a group of personnel who had received comprehensive dental treatment under active dental support programme (ADS) and another group who was not exposed to the above programme was undertaken by Haron (1995). She found that the DMFX of the ADS group was 6 as compare to 8 for non ADS group. She also reported that 64% of the personnel under ADS programme had periodontal diseases as compared to 81 % of the non ADS group.
Therefore, it can be concluded that oral health status among Malaysian Armed Forces personnel are generally poor with high levels of dental caries and periodontal diseases.
Satisfactory oral health has been defined as a masticatory system that is functionally adequate, aesthetically pleasing to the individual, and free from pain, discomfort and diseases (Dawson & Smales, 1994). Poor oral status can impose severe oral health impact to the individual.
Zainal Abidin (1988) found that the average number of emergency treatment was 12.7% cases per 1000 men per month among 318 military personnel in an infantry battalion in Malaysia. Almost fifty percent of the subject had pain which was due to dental caries and the prevalence from periodontal related pain was 28.9%. Halina in 1995 reported that there were a significant number of personnel having experienced pain and discomfort in the mouth in the previous two years. She found that prevalence of pain and discomfort, even among those who received ADS was 20.9% as compared to 45.9% for the non- ADS group. She also found that the ADS group had mean days of work loss of 0.3 days and sleep disturbance for 0.4 nights as compared to non ADS were 0.7 days and 1.7 night respectively in the last two years. Haron (1991) found 20 cases of acute dental pain during his 3 month tour of duty on board the ship, KD Mahawangsa to New Zealand.
This study is undertaken to assess the oral health status and impacts among first year cadets in the National Defence University Malaysia (UPNM) which is a military university. Cadets represent future military officers and leaders. As leaders, they serve as role model to their staff including having good oral health.
No previous study has been done in this population and hence it will provide baseline data on the oral health status of first year cadets in UPNM and its oral health impacts. The data obtained can assist in the planning of human capital to ensure that the cadets are dentally fit and are in combat readiness.